13 10 / 2014
09 10 / 2014
06 10 / 2014
#1 He is a geek!
He hates being called a geek. But, well, he puts it in his tumblr bio ages ago (picture attached). He also always share some geeky stuffs in social medias, like new programming language etc, which make him….
#2 He is a king of denial.
… nuff said.
#3 He admits that when it comes to stubbornness he is a real pain in the ass. And he totally is. Let me show you how annoyed I was by his stubbornness when we had a fight.
… this picture not by any means want to show the leo’s anger side inside of me. I rarely got real angry like this you know~ ( ‘_’ )
#4 He has an eye-fetish
I just know this as well! But he noticed people eyes more than average people do! Lucky me, he loves huge eyes, and i have those kind of belo eyes, even though people here thought i am chinese. -_-
#5 He is a hopeless romantic kind of guy
Which is somehow a bit lamey, but well, girls love dangdut boyfriend even when they act like they hate it. I am no exception to this. :p
#6 He has difficulties in making a conversation straight to the point
Which makes my phone calls can last for 3 hours or more. You seriously need to fix this sweetheart as sometimes i just want to scream my lungs out like “GEEZ STOOPPP WAFFLIIIIIING!!!!”
#7 He gets jealous easily and somehow has a tendency to knocked other guy or things with hammer. Maybe it is his favourite emoticon =_=.
#8 He spends his weekend by either working on his projects or taking a nap
Weekend after me strolling in the city to get a lunch with my friends, on the way home, I suddenly miss him and decided to call him.
Me: “Hi dear, what are you doing?”
Him: “… um, doing some office work.”
Me: “(*&(@&$)#@ for God’s sake it is weekend!! Go out with your friends you geekkkkk!”
#9 He could sleep 5 hours or less and doesn’t feel tired the next day.
Last time i heard, he didn’t sleep for two whole days. A complete opposite for me who values my sleeping hours.
#10 He snores when he is asleep though.
04 10 / 2014
Someone recently asked me if I’d ever been cheated on. A storm of pain began in the pit of my stomach. “Yes,” I replied, “Emotionally.”
What does that even mean? An emotional affair is a connection with someone of the opposite sex that you keep a secret from your partner. The operative word is ‘cheating’. And yes, it definitely counts. Many convince themselves that as long as there’s no sex, it’s not an affair. But it is. Flirtatious e-mails, sexting on mobiles, coffee and cosy heart-to-heart. It’s a new kind of adultery.
Some years ago, I caught my then-boyfriend going behind my back. My radar was already on high alert when a close buddy dropped a hint about the status of my relationship with him. He had become aloof and distant; we scarcely texted and barely met.
He Developed Attachment
I confronted him about it maturely and he admitted having developed an emotional attachment to another girl that involved lots of texting and hanging out. I don’t think he was looking for it, but he connected with her and it was a slippery slope. Boy, did it hurt. It seemed like every sad song I heard on the radio was about what I was going through.
5 Red Flags of a Slippery Slope; Signs You are Cheating
1. You’re keeping secret the amount of time you’re spending with the person.
2. You contact them outside of ‘friendship hours’ and start piling excuses to your partner.
3. You dress up for that person.
4. You share stuff that you don’t even share with your other half.
5. You start to feel dependent on the emotional high that comes with the relationship.
04 10 / 2014
- 1: what happened now?
- 2: ... what always happened, life.
- 1: don't act like summer, you silly. change of question, are you happy now?
- 2: ... no.
- 1: now that's a problem. let me hear you.